Posted June 7, Reviewed by Abigail Fagan. One-night stands are regarded as the most superficial and least intimate form of casual sex. Yet surprising empirical findings cast serious doubts on this assertion. It leaves me feeling very empty and cynical.
It's not even fun sexually. I need to feel something for the woman and entertain the vain hope that it may lead to a relationship.
Wentland and Reissing argue that one-night stands are the most superficial encounters, involving the least emotionally intimate experience and often take place between strangers or after brief acquaintance. Booty calls refer to a communication initiated with the urgent intent of having a sexual encounter.
Unlike one-night stands, the purpose of booty calls is to engage in repeated sexual activity with an acquaintance. I think it's gross when you just give it up. Claire Moran and Christina Lee interviewed Australian women about non-romantic sex. Their responses were interesting:. It was great. We seriously hit it off immediately. It was like the greatest sex ever.
We were sooo good together. It was sad when he had to leave later. Once I follow that, it's all good! Simple as that. If it's done right, it can be liberating. Because of the superficiality of the encounter, one-night stands are perceived to be the opposite of serious love. It seems counterintuitive that they will develop into long-term serious romantic relationships.
