And I felt that. We are all human and have the need for human touch regardless of if our love language is physical touch. When I was recovering from my ACL surgery two years ago, I lowkey fell in love with my physical therapist. It makes me laugh now. We literally had nothing in common and I was really just dreadfully bored but he was a cute man that was attentive to my needs despite me paying him to do just that and he was taking care of me and massaging me and making jokes here and there and he had a mustache and I love mustaches.
I bring him up because sometimes we just want to be touched and caressed and paid attention to and taken care of. When I really ponder, the things I crave the most are spooning and cuddles so I shove pillows around myself to create that essence. I was perusing a shop when I saw a retro-looking book on chakras. I love old spiritual booksββthe hand-drawn illustrations, the softened rounded edges, the yellowed pages that almost smell sweet I opened it up to a random section and came across the following on sexuality and the chakras, surely a message that was meant to come my way:.
Having sex with someone you love will obviously always be better than e. No shit. What really got me was the goal of getting the other chakras involved, not just the sacral aka where our genitalia live. Pleasure is great but I want more than that. In its truest form, sex is an act of spirituality that brings us closer to God. I say this to affirm that my beliefs do not come from a place of religious sexual guilt.
In my own spiritual awakening, which quickly turned into a healing journey, I realized that sexuality and our relationship with it is one of the most important things we can pay attention to and heal for no one else but ourselves.
Every sex act is an exchange of energy [because] every sexual act raises or lowers your energy level. When we have an intimate relationship with someone, the two energies merge. If you have sex with a shmuck that is vibrating at a lower frequency than you, you will experience lower energy afterwards because they drained you of your own higher energy.
