With role models, such as Bill Gates, Steve Jobs and Mark Zuckerberg—whose technical and creative genius literally shaped the current landscapes of social interaction, public, and personal communication and the influx of technology—letting the inner geek and nerd shine is becoming cooler and cooler every day.
While my first thought was that this might be some trendy, new and possibly kinky type of sexuality, I quickly learned that the term sapiosexual is being used on dating and social media sites by people who identify themselves as intelligent or wise.
The term sapiosexual, which is now mainstream on dating apps, such as OkCupid and Sapio, is putting a new twist on dating and takes a very different approach to partnership than the hook-ups and looks status quo. As a relationship coach who works with many professionally successful clients with imaginative and strategic minds, I understand that it can be lonely at the top.
This perception may have kept you behind closed doors, unwilling to let your mind shine, feeling lonely and unlucky in love. And, with more and more self-proclaimed sapiosexuals coming out of labs and libraries, the dating pool for those who prefer brains to beauty is ever increasing. But, where and how to find these brainy babes?
The following few tips offer some guidance on the where and how of sapiosexual dating…. Rather than hoping to meet someone who shares similar interests and intellect at a bar or the gym, most dating sites use personality testing and matching schemes, which can better connect you with compatible potential partners.
