Words: Charlotte Bayes 11th November Likes to be spontaneous, loves shopping and hot tubs, understands and tolerates my mental illness , likes milkshakes, loves horror movies and dresses really well.
You see, the list is endless, and some things are more important than others. Does this mean I have to give up enjoying some of those things I love doing with a romantic partner? Is the idea that one person is enough for everyone and monogamy is the only way to have a deep and meaningful relationship correct?
Is having more than one partner greedy? And does it ultimately mean that you are unhappy in your relationship? It can be as simple as enjoying threesomes or even having complex, simultaneous polyamorous relationships. Over the many lockdowns , people were spending an increased amount of time with their partners.
It meant a lot of re-evaluating of relationships. Users who mention ENM ethical non-monogamy and poly-related terms from London specifically has increased by per cent from January to September Even if you have decided that non-monogamy is a good fit for you, asking your partner to open up your relationship is a pretty huge decision. How to go about this, being sure to be mindful of things like jealousy and feelings of inadequacy and insecurities your partner might be experiencing, is incredibly important.
Or would you rather you both meet your new hookups at a neutral place? Are emotional relationships allowed? Are mutual friends off-limits? Make sure you are both comfortable with your arrangement. Another strict rule is to always tell partners about anything we get up to. I love the freedom it gives me, I love having sex with different genders and I get really turned on watching my partner please other women when we have sex with people together.
