Do you think that the money was worth such a scary experience? Unfortunately for escorts, and in my experiences as a stripper, men who disregard our boundaries are prevalent. For escorts, we can take precautions to hopefully avoid bad encounters, such as requiring screenings and deposits.
Pretty much every single day I worked in Texas, men would try to finger me, even after I told them to stop. Some even tried to hold me down in order to do it. My experiences with escorting and being a sugar baby are a little bit better, although there were things some of my clients did that were against my consent.
For example, I told one man that I wanted to use condoms. I could have stopped him, probably, but I froze up. Another time with the same man, he was about to put himself inside of me, I told him to wait so I could grab the condom, which I had luckily put right on the nightstand. I feel like, but am not entirely sure, that he was trying to use his body to prevent me from getting the condom.
I try not to think about what would have happened if I had not placed the condom so nearby, but instead, out-of-reach.
One of the things I look at when pricing all of my content and services is how much would I have to make from a sale to feel good about myself. They were very demanding of my time and, more than often, rude to me. I think, too, that requiring a deposit further filters out bad characters. What I laid out here is what all escorts have either faced or are afraid of. We need to be practical because our lives and livelihoods depend on it.
