This post may contain affiliate links to things like tours, hotels, Amazon associates and products. These help me earn a small commission at no additional charge to you. Moving to a new city or overseas? A year ago, I moved to Mexico City not knowing anyone and barely speaking a word of Spanish. Was I really moving to Mexico City solo with no friends, job or plan aside from the first 7 nights in an Airbnb? You bet! It went pretty well. Within a few months, I had a group to hang out with at weekends and take trips away with.
After my experiences moving to Mexico City in , I decided to write this blog post to help others in the same situation, regardless of location. Life was good but I was getting tired of transient connections. The challenges of travelling solo include getting lonely and burnt out. I planned to spend longer than a couple of weeks to really get stuck into the city. I was craving friends I could get to know rather than leave behind.
It had always worked out while backpacking, right? Other travellers are always up to socialise. Related read: how to find and pick a travel buddy. When answering the question how do I meet friends in a new city? You probably want friends beyond work anyway. This was my first step when moving to Mexico City. I posted in several Facebook groups introducing myself and explaining I was new to the city. I went with bars and coffee but if you prefer hiking or photography, suggest that instead. I even found a group for British and Irish people in Mexico City.
Join as many as possible and fill out the requested questions so you get accepted. I tended to just reply to the comments where people told me something about themselves so I could tell we had shared interests and intentions. Bonus point: As well as posting, search the group for similar messages posted in the last few months. They may still be looking to make friends and better yet, might have already met people they can introduce you to!
Extra tip: see if any of the Facebook groups have dedicated Whatsapp groups. I find these better for on-the-day events. Once in Porto, some messages popped up from a few people organising a picnic. I was nearby so went along and made two friends who I still see months later! Both have their benefits! I ended up in a language exchange WhatsApp group in Mexico City with Spanish and English speakers of varying abilities.
