So I thought I would add my two cents as someone who owes her marriage to her phone. I chose an app called Hinge because you can put more personal questions on your profile, the very first thing people see. Even your love life is for the glory of God. I think this one is really tough for optimists. I started perhaps twenty conversations, met about five guys on Zoom and went on in-person dates with two, one of which ended at the head of the aisle.
It may be odd to go from a very small dating pool to a very large one. It means that you are choosing to emotionally invest in multiple people before you find the right one.
The reality is that you will likely have to explore a few dating options, whether you use a dating app, or focus on church and Christian circles, or other everyday connections.
Among the hundreds of guys on Hinge within 10km of my home who met my criteria, I came across three I knew from my personal life. The rest: I had no idea.
The only other in-person date I went on went so terribly that I deleted the app for a few weeks afterwards. I had checked that he was going to church, asked him how he became a Christian, looked him up on Instagram to check his timeline matched and his name was real.
